Completely new at all this stuff!

[She_with_teeth]

- my name is Emma, im 24 about to be 25 and new to this whole 'open relationship' thing.
my fiance(so about to be married, and might as well be) and i have a wonderful seven month son, and after having him we have became a perfect, happy couple, we know we truely belong together and love each other and are happy to be us and raise our son in a happy relationship.
we're also best friend, have been since seventh grade nearly 11 years ago... very honest and open and we both know both of us are bisexual, which brought our whole open relationship up when i started to date a female friend of mine a couple months back, leading us to dicuss how it was alright if we had interests in 'friendlationships' which we made a set of rules to follow, and have fun with. since we are young, and wanted to enjoy being experimental and adventurous.
our whole dating scene hasnt really worked out so far. both of us have attempted to date opposite sex's and my situation came from him being too busy to date, and my fiance's side, she just pussied out. literally. she wanted an easy lay, and not to be 'tha othah girrrlll'which sorry...i knew about it. so...
it just didnt work.
Any since we are new to all this, does anyone have any advice, stories, thoughts, or experiences they would like to share with me? if not on here you can message me @ mycatisaninja@aol.com, or join my lifejournal, which is She_with_teeth