Monday, May 5th, 2008
I’m doing a series of blog posts all month about the research for Opening Up at The Village Voice’s new sexuality blog, Naked City, which is edited by the fabulous Audacia Ray. Here is the first one: “Open Up: Women With Two Husbands.” Enjoy!
Tags: media, open marriage, polyamory, polyfidelity, Village Voice
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Thursday, May 1st, 2008
While I was in Chicago, I met up with SerpentineLibertine, who interviewed me for Red Light District Chicago, an internet and public access TV show about sex work. This is part one of the interview! If the player doesn’t work above, go to http://blip.tv/file/868381
Tags: interview, media, sex work
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Sunday, April 20th, 2008

My latest Village Voice column, “The New Wave of Trans Cinema,” features Morty Diamond’s latest film, Trans-Entities: The Nasty Love of Papi and Wil about a kinky, genderqueer, polyamorous couple. They openly discuss their poly relationship and share a scene with one of their lovers. It’s a wonderful film and an intimate look at the lives of two fascinating people.
Tags: BDSM, genderqueer, LGBT, media, Morty Diamond, polyamory, queer, sex
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Wednesday, March 19th, 2008
Just in case you’re not totally sick of all the coverage (a lot of which is redundant) of the Spitzer “scandal,” here’s a fabulous piece called “Against Sexual Scandal” by Lauren Berlant. She calls the mainstream media to task for its neverending sex-negativity. A little snip: “I felt sorry for sex during the Larry Craig brouhaha last summer. What if he liked being married and procreating and giving anonymous head? What if that was his sexual preference? What if he really was not gay, as he claims, but had sexual desires that seemed incoherent? Some of the response to Craig was like the response to moralists like Jim Bakker, Ted Haggard and now Spitzer–moralists deserve to suffer the same force of negative judgment they wielded on others. Shame on us? Shame on you, ha ha! But lots of the response was sheer homophobia. And all of it was sheer erotophobia.” I love her line about having sexual desires that seemed incoherent. Because in reality, a lot of us are way beyond gay/straight, kinky/vanilla, etc. and Berlant calls for us to embrace that rather than continue the cycle of shame.
Tags: affairs, cheating, Eliot Spitzer, marriage, media, non-monogamy, open marriage, sex work
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